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PROFESSOR: Great.

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As I mentioned at the beginning,
the second part of today

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is going to be on
negotiation skills.

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Assuming you can present
well, eventually, you'll

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then have to engage with the
people that want to know more.

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And there are skills that
can be learned about that.

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We have Mindy Garber, who's
done this a number of times.

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I'm going to let Mindy, like
others that have presented,

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introduce themselves.

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And I hope you enjoy this.

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And I know you'll
get a lot out of it.

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So, Mindy.

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MINDY GARBER: Good evening.

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And welcome.

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And thank you for coming.

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Most ventures fail
because of people issues

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and are really a failure of the
relationships among the team

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members.

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So that quote was an
inspiration for this workshop.

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And here's the original paper
that it came from a while ago.

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But it's just as
valuable today as it

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was when it was first written.

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So negotiation is
a skill that you're

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going to need your whole life,
from when you start the company

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to the life of the company.

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It's a way to build
relationships with people

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and have conversations.

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I'm Mindy Garber.

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I'm class of '82.

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I'm both an engineer
and a mediator.

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And I tell people, the
difference between engineering

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and mediation is,
as an engineer,

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your job is to
gather all the facts

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and try to make the
optimal solution.

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As a mediator, you're trying to
help people have a conversation

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that they couldn't have before.

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And you're trying to help them
communicate with each other

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and help them figure
out why they-- to help

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them solve their own problems.

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So that's how I got into it.

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I got into mediation because
really, after financial issues--

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I helped start a company
that does speech recognition.

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After financial
issues, getting along

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is really the hardest part.

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And I've seen a lot
of companies fail

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not because of technology
problems or financial,

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but because the two
founders couldn't get along.

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And that leads to
a lot of wasted IP.

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And so anything that we
can do to help companies

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be successful and
monetize their IP

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is something that will be a
good thing for the US economy.

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So this course is
very interactive.

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And the people on Zoom, you
don't get a buy on this.

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There's stuff for
you to do, too.

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Please raise your hand.

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And for now, could
everybody get a partner.

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And if it's the person that
you are a co-founder with,

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that's fine.

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But for now, you're just
going to be co-founders.

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So please, please pick somebody
else because, otherwise,

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this class will be no fun.

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All right.

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OK.

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All right.

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That's one way to
get people to move.

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It's so funny because,
when I was a student,

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I always would sit
in the back, too.

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And now, I get it.

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It's like, please, please,
if you want, come forward.

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OK, all right.

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So the agenda-- we're
going to talk a little bit

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about negotiation.

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We're going to talk about when
you start up negotiations.

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And when you're
starting up, it's

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you're negotiating
with your co-founder,

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with the intercompany,
and intercompany

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between other companies.

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And then we have a bunch of
role plays along the way.

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And we'll do a debrief.

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So there are many schools
of thought of negotiation.

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But basically, there's
two kinds of ideas.

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There's the idea that
it's either win-lose

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or it's more of a collaboration.

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If it's a win-lose,
you're trying

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to get as most-- you think
it's a zero sum game.

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I win, you lose.

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If I get something,
you lose something.

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And also, you don't
really necessarily care

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about the relationship
between the people.

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But if it's a collaboration,
and it's two people working

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on the problem together.

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So my whole philosophy is
all based on getting to yes.

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And I took the
program on negotiation

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at Harvard, which
I highly recommend.

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So it's a joint effort.

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You're collaborating.

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It's a problem for
two people to solve.

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And you do care about
the relationship.

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And I know that Joe has
a million stories, too.

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There is no such
thing as one and done.

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People think, oh, I'm
just going to do this.

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And I'm never going
to see this guy again.

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Well, we both have
a lot of stories,

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if there's time at
the end, to tell you

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what you negotiate today
may come back to haunt you,

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even if it's the person
goes to another company

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and decides never to
buy your product again.

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You will always
meet people again.

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And so being a
principled negotiator

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is a very important thing.

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Your reputation
will precede you.

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So the first thing to think
about in a negotiation

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is, for you, what
are your interests?

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What are your needs, and
goals, and hopes, and fears?

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What is it you want?

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Because a lot of people,
when I'm in mediation,

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and you ask people, OK,
well, what is it you want?

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People have no idea.

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They haven't really
thought about it.

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It's like, well, how can I how
can you solve your problem if it

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isn't-- you don't really even
know why it is you're doing

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things.

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And having your own interests
and understanding them really

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leads to having options.

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If you know what you
want, you can say,

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well, there may be a lot
of different solutions

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to getting it.

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So I just put this picture in.

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This is a stereotypical
negotiation.

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It's like, people
have positions.

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I want $500.

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And then if you ask them
why, why do you need $500?

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They'll say, well, you
drove over my fence.

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And it's going to
cost $500 to fix it.

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So that's the interest, is
that I need to fix my fence.

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And I could say, well,
my brother fixes fences.

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And he'll do it.

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And he'll make it
as good as new.

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And you won't have
to pay anything.

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So now, I've had an option.

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The options are
all the things that

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solve your interests that
you may not have thought of.

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So typically, as an engineer,
we come in and say, here

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is the right answer.

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We need to program this in C++.

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And then you'd say,
well, like why?

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They say, well, if I have to
learn some other language,

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it'll take me six months
to learn that language.

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But I already know C++.

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So I can do it in three weeks.

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I teach a moderating
design dispute

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in one of the design
courses, 2009.

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And it's really just
helping people understand

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why people want what they want.

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OK.

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So now, we're getting
to the negotiations.

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So the first things
you're going to do

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is talk amongst yourselves.

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Then you're going to have
negotiations within your company

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as it grows.

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And you're going to have to talk
to people outside your company--

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not just your not
just your customers,

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but your vendors, your
people that you work with

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and collaborate with.

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So you're going to have
all kinds of negotiations.

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We talk about the
kinds of negotiations

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the founders should have.

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And I've divided
into three parts.

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One is first questions.

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And we'll get to
these in details.

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Everybody's heard of
a founders agreement.

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And we'll talk a
little bit about that.

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And then there's
the team agreement.

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So first questions are really
why are you doing this,

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what does success look
like, and what are you

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giving up to do this venture?

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And I think the third
question is really

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one of the most important,
because people will say, oh,

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I'm giving up grad school.

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Or I got this great
job with Google,

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but I'm giving it
up to work on this.

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And it's really important to
know where people come from.

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So what I'd like you to do
is, for about two minutes,

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with your co-founder--

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don't give information that's
secret to your company.

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But ask each other these
questions and answer them.

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Now, what I want
to also stress here

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is the person, when you
ask your co-founder,

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why are you doing this?

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They're going to
give you some answer.

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Instead of just
moving on, we're going

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to practice active listening
and just reframe it and say,

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so you are doing this
to further the science

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in your field, whatever it is.

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And this way, both
sides feel heard.

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And we're going to ask and
answer these questions.

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OK?

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You've got like two
minutes or three minutes.

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OK.

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How are we doing up there?

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Let's stop for a minute.

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How many of you are
planning to found

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a company with another person?

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Please raise your hand.

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So keep your hands raised
if you have already

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had this discussion.

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OK, one person.

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So what you're doing here
is you're finding out

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each other's interests.

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I have my slides
in the wrong order.

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So I'm going to skip a slide.

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But I will come back to it.

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So what I tell people
to do is-- this

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is called the
circle of interest,

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where you write a
circle, and then you

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put a little stick
for each person

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and write their interests down.

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And the reason you do this is
so that you literally get all

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of your interests on one page.

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So this is what I did.

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I mentored a startup.

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And we sat.

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And I actually asked
them the questions.

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And I took down their answers.

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And you can see,
one of them is I'm

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trying to solve a problem that's
been identified but not yet

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solved.

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I want to learn about tech.

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I don't know about tech, but
I wanted to challenge myself.

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I want to challenge myself to
learn something I know nothing--

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I'm good at detail.

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And I want to keep
expanding my skills.

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And the other
founder said, well,

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I want to be a
successful entrepreneur.

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I want to show how a successful
venture can change the format

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or help a certain
section of people

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and be a profitable company.

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So they gave me
all these things.

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And I wrote them down.

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And then I looked at them.

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And I said, oh, so
have you heard--

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you haven't heard
anything that you haven't

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heard before right here?

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And they kind of gave
me a very sheepish look.

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And they hadn't discussed it
because they had a great idea.

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They both wanted to do it.

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But they didn't know why the
other person wanted to do it.

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So I feel like this is--
well, let me ask you this.

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Do you think this is important
when starting a company?

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So let me go back to
this slide that I skipped

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because I went back and forth
what order these things should

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be in.

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And this slide I added because,
pretty much after every one

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of these lectures,
people say, well,

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how do I know who's
a good co-founder?

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How do I know?

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How should I pick them?

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And the thing is this is where
I call the discussion that you

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have your honest assessment.

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What skills do each bring?

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And what are our personalities?

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To really discuss,
like oh, I really

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love being in front of people.

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And I will talk
people's ears off,

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whereas some people
are like, well,

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maybe that kind of function,
you should take over

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because I'm not so
interested in doing that.

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But what I am not
saying is, let's

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just say you're two
mechanical engineers.

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And you have an
idea for a widget.

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I am not saying you should
not form a company together

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because you have the
exact same skills.

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What I am saying is that,
when you form your company,

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you know your skill set.

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And you're going to say, oh,
we will need additional skills

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to help this company.

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So it's not saying who
you should and shouldn't

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be with as far as
your technical skills.

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It's just understanding
that there's

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a lot of skills needed
to start a company.

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And knowing which ones you have
and which ones you don't have

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are really important.

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All right.

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So the next one is the
founders agreement.

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And I'm not going to
spend too much time on it

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because there are lots
and lots of books written.

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In fact, even MIT
has a book on how

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to write a founders agreement.

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But basically,
it's just covering

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who owns what, who did what,
who's contributing what,

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and your very favorite,
the equity discussion.

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How many people
are looking forward

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to having an equity discussion
with their co-founder?

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OK.

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You already had it?

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You guys already had
your equity discussions?

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No, the people-- oh, no.

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You're just-- OK, fine.

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All right.

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And the most important
thing is what

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happens if one founder leaves.

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And that's a really-- like.

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OK, I decided I am going to
grad school and see you later.

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And having these discussions
and writing everything down.

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And the thing with
equity is like, suppose

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I'm the inventor and the other
person is the business person.

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And we're like, oh, we
could form a company.

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Well, at the beginning of the
company, I'm doing all the work.

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And maybe as the
company goes on,

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I do less and less and
people take more and more.

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So it's really about what
your contributions are,

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what are the values of
the contribution you make

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to the company, and being able
to just have a real discussion.

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What does it take to put
this company together?

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And who's going to do what?

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And what are the pieces?

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And what are the
values of the pieces?

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So this is just
something that you're

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going to have to talk about.

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And again, there's lots
of literature to help you.

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So the last thing is
about the team agreement.

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So what is a team agreement?

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So anytime two or more people
work together, it's a team.

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So I do a lot of co-mediation.

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And that's a team.

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And the agreement is, how are
we going to work together?

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And I think all
companies have it.

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But it's like this secret thing.

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When you go work for a company,
it's like, oh, who knows this?

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How do you get that done?

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How do we communicate?

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Which Slack channel are
we supposed to be using?

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All the things that you have
to learn as a new employee,

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you could actually
write down in advance

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and create the culture for
your company that you want.

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And MIT really does push
having team agreements.

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I'm a mentor for the UPOP
program, which is Undergraduate

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Practice Opportunities.

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And on the first day, they
have to write an agreement

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on how they're going to
interact with each other-- so

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the kind of corporate culture
you want, what are the roles,

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and how decisions will be made.

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So the first thing
is the culture.

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Now, there's company ethics.

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And of course, we
can argue Google

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did have its original
ethics, don't be evil.

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You might argue, well,
maybe now it's be

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less evil than everyone else.

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But they did have
one originally.

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And what do you expect
for people to do?

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How are you expecting people
to behave to each other?

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And again, as you
start your company,

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if you don't think
about these things,

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your first employees are going
to create the culture for you.

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So this is your chance
to do two things-- set up

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the kind of culture
you want to work in

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and you want others
work in and also

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have a way to communicate
it with each other.

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So this is like, how are
you going to interact?

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How are we going
to have meetings?

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So I just co-founded
a venture which

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is a nonprofit that were
really just teaching workshops.

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And I set these things up.

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We're going to have a
Monday morning meeting.

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And we're going to talk
about the following things.

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And how are we going to plan?

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And how are we going to
share and collaborate?

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And just even saying, OK,
we'll use Google Docs,

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or we'll use Slack, or
whatever it is is important.

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The other thing is
next we have roles.

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Who's going to do what?

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And how are we going to be
accountable to each other?

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So how are we
going to manage it?

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How are we going to understand
what's going to happen?

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And again, this
does two things--

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not just sets the
stage, but it also

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gives you a way to communicate.

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Hey, in our team
agreement, we said

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that we would have our
meetings Monday at 3 o'clock

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every Monday.

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And maybe that's
not working now.

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Or you seem to be not available
every Monday at 3 o'clock.

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So it's giving you the
language to talk to each other

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instead of accusing
each other or whatever.

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These are things
you've agreed to.

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You can change them.

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And that's the other
thing, is all these things

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should be revisited,
everything that you do.

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I have a co-founders check-in
every six months or so.

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How are we doing?

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And it's really not
about what we're doing.

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It's about how are we
working together as a team.

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OK, so the last thing is, how
will the team make decisions?

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And what will you
do if you disagree?

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So I'm going to
give you two minutes

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to talk to your co-founder.

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First of all, the people
that are co-founding,

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how many people have
50/50 agreements,

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like we each own
half the company?

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OK.

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So assume that your
co-founder, you're all 50/50.

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Have a discussion
with your co-founder.

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What can you do when you
disagree on something?

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I'll give you like two minutes.

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OK.

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Raise your hand and
I'll call on you.

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Who has some suggestions
as to what to do,

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what to do if you can't agree?

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Raise your hand.

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STUDENT: Give each
other some time

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to discuss over what was being
discussed and the points for it.

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Probably afterwards talk to
each other together in a room,

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or go--

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if preferred-- for coffee
or eat something, and then

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discuss honestly.

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But everything should be honest
of what their opinion was

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and how they think they
could come together

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to a probable solution.

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But the conversation
should entirely be honest.

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Once we exit the
room, there should

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be nothing that's held back so
that with a collective vision

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we can move forward
from that problem

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because there are
many others to come.

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MINDY GARBER: OK, so step
back, think about it,

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and have a real
intense discussion.

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Who else has some other ideas?

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STUDENT: So I think
it also depends on

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at which point of
disagreement you are.

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If it is a point of
blockage of the business,

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potentially one that will impact
the growth of the business,

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it has a point that will
have a form of resolution.

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So in the past, that
level of disagreement,

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I've put in the agreement
from the beginning, basically

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a Wesleyan approach.

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We will agree to disagree.

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And this is what we will do.

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Prior to that, you should
try to not be at that level

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and then try to get
some form of mediation--

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so finding a neutral
ground, going to a movie,

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or sharing a meal is one thing.

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But maybe as the business
is more mature, finding ways

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to not get to that
level of disagreement

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and how-- if there's not
an imbalance of power,

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how you can get
a joint decision?

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MINDY GARBER: OK, good.

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Over here?

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STUDENT: So one thing that we
were talking about is if we

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really disagree on something,
that we should find an unbiased

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person that would--
like a consultant--

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that would help us.

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And we should agree
that we will go

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with the opinion of that
unbiased person that

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is an expert.

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MINDY GARBER: OK, a consultant.

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Great.

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Are there any other ideas?

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Oh, they're back there.

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STUDENT: So we also talked
about the type of decision

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that we're making.

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So if it's a one-way
type of decision,

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so it's very hard to come
back or take it back,

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then we discuss another,
only we go through the--

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we put a lot of investment.

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And we come up with
a decision together--

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either we can also look for
outside guidance or something

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like that.

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But if it's a two-way
decision, so we can make it,

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and then it's not that hard to
come back from that decision,

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we can just evaluate and
just make the decision.

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For example, what
is the [INAUDIBLE]

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MINDY GARBER: OK, so the
severity of the decision,

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make it and see how it goes.

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Good.

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STUDENT: Just to summarize
that a little bit, yeah,

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if we have a one-way decision,
where it's like, once we go back

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from it-- or once you
go through with it,

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you can't come
back from it, just

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take it a little bit of the
way, and then see how it goes,

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and then go from there.

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And if it doesn't work out, go
with the other person's opinion.

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MINDY GARBER: OK, so decide.

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And then maybe you can
back out if it's not good.

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So there's the get
advice from an expert

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or MIT Venture Mentoring
kind of people, consultants.

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Some companies take
turns being the decider.

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So I have another
workshop that I

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used to teach called Helping
Small Businesses Avoid

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Court based on all of the
mediations that I had done.

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And so I also do arbitration,
which is where I'm the decider.

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So I talked to one
of my lawyer friends.

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And I said, oh, you've
done a lot of litigation

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with small companies.

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Can you tell me--

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I'm working on this workshop.

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Can you help me?

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And he looks at me.

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He says, never, ever
let anyone be 50-50.

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Make it 51/49.

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And then he starts
telling me all the court

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cases that he had where
he sued the other partner.

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And at one point, there was
like the two partners got

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in a fight in the courtroom.

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And so he's like
telling me, doing that.

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And I laughed at him.

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I said, you know, it's funny you
say that but 100% of the people

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that I've ever met are 50/50.

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So we better give them the tools
so that they can avoid you,

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so they don't wind
up being at lawyers.

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So that's where this
has started out from.

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OK, good.

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So now, we're going to
get to the role play.

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And I need a couple
of volunteers.

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So in your pairs,
one of you is going

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to be the inventor, Sandra.

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And one of you is
going to be a student.

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And this is a true story.

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This happened here at MIT.

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And Joe knows the
people involved.

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And I know the people involved.

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Sandra has invented a
very inexpensive way

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to process crude oil.

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So I have three slides.

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I used to hand out pieces
of paper for people to read.

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But I need volunteers
to read the slides.

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So do I have a volunteer
who will read one slide?

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Thank you.

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Then you'll do read
the second one.

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OK here we go.

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Read this slide, please.

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STUDENT: What?

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MINDY GARBER: I know.

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It's cheaper than handing
out paper that no one wants.

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STUDENT: Do you
want me to verbatim?

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MINDY GARBER: Yes, verbatim.

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Just read it.

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STUDENT: OK.

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Ready?

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Sandra has a prototype.

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But it can only process 1
cup of crude oil at a time.

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Several undergraduates
heard about this invention

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and were introduced to Sandra.

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They hit it off.

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And somehow, it was decided
to enter the 100K competition

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and perhaps start a company.

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The relationship between the
inventor and the undergraduates

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was never documented.

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But the undergraduates
began working intensely

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on writing a business plan.

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They didn't stop there, though.

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They made connections
with executives

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at large oil-processing
companies, who, of course, were

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very invested in the invention.

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They put in a tremendous
amount of work in this venture,

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sometimes to the detriment
of their regular classwork.

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Just before the
competition however,

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Sandra is thinking about
pulling out, saying

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that her invention isn't ready.

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This would leave the students
disappointed and frustrated

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that all the work
has been for nothing.

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MINDY GARBER: OK, next one.

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STUDENT: It's so small.

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STUDENT: Sandra's invention
can only process 1 cup of crude

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at a time.

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And she isn't sure
how to scale it up

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or even if the
process is scalable.

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She has no written
agreement with the students.

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And she isn't even
sure that students are

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capable of starting a company.

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In the end, though,
it is her invention.

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And she feels that she can
decide what to do with it.

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MINDY GARBER: All right,
I need one more reader.

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Does anyone else
want to read one?

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OK.

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STUDENT: They are
in awe of Sandra.

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She has a PhD and has
invented something

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that could be really
useful and profitable.

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They're hesitant to bring
up uncomfortable subjects,

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like agreements, with her,
assuming that it will all

00:25:29.140 --> 00:25:34.340 align:middle line:84%
work out after they
have proven to her

00:25:34.340 --> 00:25:36.700 align:middle line:84%
how much effort they're
willing to put into

00:25:36.700 --> 00:25:38.540 align:middle line:90%
make the company a success.

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They can't understand
her reluctance

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to move forward faster.

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When they get a company
executive interested,

00:25:45.200 --> 00:25:48.420 align:middle line:84%
she doesn't seem that
excited to speak with them.

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Also, she doesn't
seem to really want

00:25:50.780 --> 00:25:55.680 align:middle line:84%
to show her invention to anyone,
even though, from the outside,

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it just looks like a black box.

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And no one would be able
to see the inside process.

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MINDY GARBER: OK, so
one of you is Sandra.

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And one of you is a student.

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But first of all, I'd
like you to discuss,

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what are your interests?

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So take a couple of
minutes and tell each other

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what your interests are.

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And actually, you can think
about the other persons, too.

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So if you're a student,
you can think, oh, maybe

00:26:23.060 --> 00:26:24.680 align:middle line:84%
Sandra might be
interested in this.

00:26:24.680 --> 00:26:29.347 align:middle line:84%
So think about the interests
of both Sandra and the student.

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And I'll give you a few minutes.

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People at home, write
down all the interests

00:26:37.860 --> 00:26:41.280 align:middle line:84%
that you can think of for
both Sandra and the students.

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We're going to fill our
little interest thing.

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I can't do what you're saying.

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But OK, let's start with
the student's interests.

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And she's just
going to hand it--

00:27:00.340 --> 00:27:03.560 align:middle line:84%
people in the corner, just say
something, a student interest,

00:27:03.560 --> 00:27:07.340 align:middle line:84%
and then hand it to
the person next to you.

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STUDENT: Student interest--
it's fun and exciting.

00:27:09.890 --> 00:27:12.750 align:middle line:84%
It could be a cool experience
for them as students.

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MINDY GARBER: OK, so they
want a fun experience.

00:27:15.130 --> 00:27:17.970 align:middle line:90%
Next, as the student.

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STUDENT: Student or Sandra?

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MINDY GARBER: OK, we could
say Sandra, whatever.

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STUDENT: I think
Sandra's interest

00:27:23.130 --> 00:27:28.770 align:middle line:84%
is inventing a genuinely
useful technology

00:27:28.770 --> 00:27:31.890 align:middle line:90%
and wanting to protect her IP.

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MINDY GARBER: OK, wanting
to protect her IP.

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STUDENT: It seems like
the students really

00:27:36.930 --> 00:27:41.028 align:middle line:84%
want to raise money to be able
to scale up this new invention.

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MINDY GARBER: So why do
they want to raise money?

00:27:43.070 --> 00:27:44.690 align:middle line:90%
What are their interests?

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STUDENT: Might just be end
goal would be to create

00:27:46.930 --> 00:27:48.228 align:middle line:90%
a profitable venture for them.

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MINDY GARBER:
Profitable venture, OK.

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STUDENT: For Sandra,
I think she only

00:27:54.130 --> 00:27:58.290 align:middle line:84%
wants to put a product
out there that she

00:27:58.290 --> 00:28:00.603 align:middle line:90%
is sure is scalable and viable.

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MINDY GARBER: So she's
worried about her reputation.

00:28:02.770 --> 00:28:04.830 align:middle line:84%
Do you want to hand it
down to the next row?

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STUDENT: This next
one right here.

00:28:12.345 --> 00:28:13.720 align:middle line:84%
I won't repeat
what they phrased,

00:28:13.720 --> 00:28:17.840 align:middle line:84%
but for me, I would say
that these students are

00:28:17.840 --> 00:28:22.640 align:middle line:90%
more concerned of the process.

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And Sandra is more
concerned about the result.

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MINDY GARBER: So the students
want to get experience

00:28:28.720 --> 00:28:30.480 align:middle line:90%
in starting a company.

00:28:30.480 --> 00:28:32.920 align:middle line:84%
And Sandra's really worried
about her reputation

00:28:32.920 --> 00:28:38.480 align:middle line:84%
and being able to
build a valuable thing,

00:28:38.480 --> 00:28:39.960 align:middle line:90%
a valuable product.

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So does anybody else
have different things,

00:28:42.620 --> 00:28:43.940 align:middle line:90%
if you have different things?

00:28:43.940 --> 00:28:46.540 align:middle line:90%


00:28:46.540 --> 00:28:47.040 align:middle line:90%
OK.

00:28:47.040 --> 00:28:51.600 align:middle line:90%


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STUDENT: This is mean.

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But maybe, because the students
also spent a lot of time on it,

00:28:56.800 --> 00:28:59.400 align:middle line:84%
it was detrimental
to their schoolwork,

00:28:59.400 --> 00:29:01.460 align:middle line:90%
according to the text.

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MINDY GARBER: What are
their interests, then?

00:29:04.160 --> 00:29:06.100 align:middle line:84%
Are they avoiding
work on purpose?

00:29:06.100 --> 00:29:08.020 align:middle line:84%
Like oh no, I can't
do my homework.

00:29:08.020 --> 00:29:09.660 align:middle line:90%
I have to work on this project.

00:29:09.660 --> 00:29:12.760 align:middle line:90%
I mean, what's an interest?

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STUDENT: Maybe it's also like
a sunken cost kind of thing,

00:29:15.840 --> 00:29:17.680 align:middle line:90%
where they spend time on this.

00:29:17.680 --> 00:29:20.300 align:middle line:84%
And they could spend their
time on their work instead.

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And they want to see
something come out of it.

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MINDY GARBER: So they want to
return on their investment?

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STUDENT: Yeah, of time.

00:29:26.160 --> 00:29:29.040 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: Of time, OK.

00:29:29.040 --> 00:29:30.420 align:middle line:90%
Are there other ideas?

00:29:30.420 --> 00:29:33.880 align:middle line:90%


00:29:33.880 --> 00:29:35.840 align:middle line:90%
OK.

00:29:35.840 --> 00:29:37.600 align:middle line:84%
Actually, go here
first, and then back.

00:29:37.600 --> 00:29:38.100 align:middle line:90%
Oh, OK.

00:29:38.100 --> 00:29:38.460 align:middle line:90%
That's OK.

00:29:38.460 --> 00:29:38.960 align:middle line:90%
Go ahead.

00:29:38.960 --> 00:29:39.800 align:middle line:90%
That's fine.

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STUDENT: It sounds like
Sandra is interested in just

00:29:43.720 --> 00:29:45.440 align:middle line:90%
keeping control.

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MINDY GARBER: OK, so she
is interested in control.

00:29:47.960 --> 00:29:48.460 align:middle line:90%
OK.

00:29:48.460 --> 00:29:51.660 align:middle line:90%
Anyone else on this line?

00:29:51.660 --> 00:29:52.160 align:middle line:90%
OK.

00:29:52.160 --> 00:29:56.240 align:middle line:90%


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STUDENT: Well,
yeah, so Sandra is

00:29:59.880 --> 00:30:05.496 align:middle line:84%
focused on developing
this technology so it's

00:30:05.496 --> 00:30:13.070 align:middle line:84%
available, able to use
it as a consumption.

00:30:13.070 --> 00:30:15.350 align:middle line:90%
But students, they're--

00:30:15.350 --> 00:30:17.910 align:middle line:84%
I was thinking they're
undergrad students.

00:30:17.910 --> 00:30:20.950 align:middle line:84%
And I think one
of the interests--

00:30:20.950 --> 00:30:23.790 align:middle line:84%
they need to find an
internship [INAUDIBLE]

00:30:23.790 --> 00:30:30.550 align:middle line:84%
and they would like to put this
into their resume eventually.

00:30:30.550 --> 00:30:34.630 align:middle line:84%
So their focus seems
a little different.

00:30:34.630 --> 00:30:36.878 align:middle line:90%


00:30:36.878 --> 00:30:38.170 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: No, this is good.

00:30:38.170 --> 00:30:41.010 align:middle line:84%
So possibly, they just want
to put it on their resume.

00:30:41.010 --> 00:30:44.630 align:middle line:84%
But maybe they want this to
be their career, their job.

00:30:44.630 --> 00:30:47.470 align:middle line:84%
Maybe they're just like,
oh look, if I do this

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and it's successful, I have
a job coming out of school.

00:30:51.030 --> 00:30:53.790 align:middle line:84%
And I can do something
that's worthwhile.

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So are there any other things
that you felt weren't covered?

00:30:58.954 --> 00:31:01.820 align:middle line:90%
OK.

00:31:01.820 --> 00:31:04.660 align:middle line:84%
So over the years, we've
collected a bunch of things.

00:31:04.660 --> 00:31:07.460 align:middle line:84%
And actually, from
the real people, too.

00:31:07.460 --> 00:31:09.940 align:middle line:90%
But here, so the students--

00:31:09.940 --> 00:31:13.320 align:middle line:84%
and again, this is
not the right answer.

00:31:13.320 --> 00:31:14.480 align:middle line:90%
You guys had answers.

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I mean, when you're thinking
about people's interests,

00:31:17.640 --> 00:31:20.040 align:middle line:84%
you don't necessarily
always get them right.

00:31:20.040 --> 00:31:20.860 align:middle line:90%
And

00:31:20.860 --> 00:31:23.260 align:middle line:84%
Even when I'm in a
mediation, I'll say,

00:31:23.260 --> 00:31:24.720 align:middle line:90%
so you're interested in this?

00:31:24.720 --> 00:31:27.200 align:middle line:84%
And they'll go, no, I'm not
interested in that at all.

00:31:27.200 --> 00:31:28.800 align:middle line:90%
But I am interested in y.

00:31:28.800 --> 00:31:32.040 align:middle line:84%
So again, this is
not the right answer.

00:31:32.040 --> 00:31:33.660 align:middle line:84%
These are just
things that have--

00:31:33.660 --> 00:31:37.300 align:middle line:84%
since I couldn't really do
it live, things that people

00:31:37.300 --> 00:31:39.140 align:middle line:90%
have thought up over the years.

00:31:39.140 --> 00:31:42.200 align:middle line:84%
There's a career path with
the company, the students.

00:31:42.200 --> 00:31:44.587 align:middle line:84%
They are learning to
talk with executives.

00:31:44.587 --> 00:31:46.420 align:middle line:84%
I mean, they're talking
to senior executives

00:31:46.420 --> 00:31:48.380 align:middle line:90%
at oil companies.

00:31:48.380 --> 00:31:50.220 align:middle line:84%
They are bringing
a new technology

00:31:50.220 --> 00:31:51.778 align:middle line:90%
that will help the world.

00:31:51.778 --> 00:31:53.820 align:middle line:84%
So they're like, wow, this
would be really great.

00:31:53.820 --> 00:31:56.740 align:middle line:84%
If we could really
cut down on what

00:31:56.740 --> 00:31:59.370 align:middle line:84%
it takes to process
crude oil, maybe we

00:31:59.370 --> 00:32:02.810 align:middle line:90%
would save a lot of energy.

00:32:02.810 --> 00:32:04.390 align:middle line:90%
Obviously, money and career.

00:32:04.390 --> 00:32:06.330 align:middle line:84%
And for her, she wants
to protect her IP,

00:32:06.330 --> 00:32:09.510 align:middle line:84%
which you said about that,
that she wants control.

00:32:09.510 --> 00:32:14.130 align:middle line:84%
But she also is very concerned
about her own reputation

00:32:14.130 --> 00:32:14.830 align:middle line:90%
in the field.

00:32:14.830 --> 00:32:16.890 align:middle line:84%
She doesn't want to
say, oh, I have this,

00:32:16.890 --> 00:32:21.770 align:middle line:84%
because scaling up from 1 cup
to a million gallons a day

00:32:21.770 --> 00:32:25.730 align:middle line:84%
is not an easy, an
easy thing to do.

00:32:25.730 --> 00:32:32.050 align:middle line:84%
So what you're going to do
now, student and Sandra,

00:32:32.050 --> 00:32:35.690 align:middle line:84%
are you're going to pick the
things that you thought of that

00:32:35.690 --> 00:32:39.650 align:middle line:84%
were interests and come
up with an agreement that

00:32:39.650 --> 00:32:40.887 align:middle line:90%
would meet your interests.

00:32:40.887 --> 00:32:43.470 align:middle line:84%
So you're going to get a little
bit longer to talk about this.

00:32:43.470 --> 00:32:46.730 align:middle line:84%
You can pick a couple
things, two or three things,

00:32:46.730 --> 00:32:47.810 align:middle line:90%
and come up with--

00:32:47.810 --> 00:32:51.130 align:middle line:84%
if you were going to
go forward with this,

00:32:51.130 --> 00:32:53.592 align:middle line:84%
what kind of agreement
would meet your interests?

00:32:53.592 --> 00:32:55.050 align:middle line:84%
So pick a couple
of your interests,

00:32:55.050 --> 00:32:58.730 align:middle line:84%
the ones that you thought of, or
if you want to pick from there.

00:32:58.730 --> 00:33:01.190 align:middle line:84%
And let's see what agreements
you can come up with.

00:33:01.190 --> 00:33:01.690 align:middle line:90%
OK?

00:33:01.690 --> 00:33:07.130 align:middle line:90%


00:33:07.130 --> 00:33:10.290 align:middle line:84%
So how many of you--
raise your hand

00:33:10.290 --> 00:33:13.150 align:middle line:84%
if you were able to come
to some kind of agreement.

00:33:13.150 --> 00:33:16.370 align:middle line:90%


00:33:16.370 --> 00:33:21.690 align:middle line:84%
So for the people who
came to an agreement,

00:33:21.690 --> 00:33:24.070 align:middle line:84%
can you tell us something
that you agreed to?

00:33:24.070 --> 00:33:27.530 align:middle line:84%
And I wanted to make one other
comment before that someone came

00:33:27.530 --> 00:33:28.750 align:middle line:90%
up and mentioned to me.

00:33:28.750 --> 00:33:31.450 align:middle line:84%
So sometimes, it's hard to
understand what our interests

00:33:31.450 --> 00:33:33.050 align:middle line:90%
and what our positions are.

00:33:33.050 --> 00:33:35.390 align:middle line:90%
I want to raise capital.

00:33:35.390 --> 00:33:38.178 align:middle line:84%
Well, then it's what are the
interests behind the capital?

00:33:38.178 --> 00:33:39.470 align:middle line:90%
What is it going to do for you?

00:33:39.470 --> 00:33:41.012 align:middle line:84%
Why do you want to
raise the capital?

00:33:41.012 --> 00:33:43.690 align:middle line:84%
So these are
interests-- what they

00:33:43.690 --> 00:33:46.890 align:middle line:84%
want, what they're interested
in, what their fears are,

00:33:46.890 --> 00:33:49.690 align:middle line:84%
as opposed to--
they could say, I

00:33:49.690 --> 00:33:52.650 align:middle line:84%
want to make a million dollar.s
Well, that's an interest.

00:33:52.650 --> 00:33:55.040 align:middle line:84%
But we'll keep
going through this

00:33:55.040 --> 00:34:00.000 align:middle line:84%
and coming into what are
interests versus positions.

00:34:00.000 --> 00:34:05.000 align:middle line:84%
So who wants to share
something that they agreed to,

00:34:05.000 --> 00:34:08.960 align:middle line:90%
that they could both agree to?

00:34:08.960 --> 00:34:10.179 align:middle line:90%
STUDENT: We could go first.

00:34:10.179 --> 00:34:15.080 align:middle line:84%
So we came to the agreement that
it could be a joint venture.

00:34:15.080 --> 00:34:18.219 align:middle line:84%
But Sandra has all the IP on
the patent and everything.

00:34:18.219 --> 00:34:22.080 align:middle line:84%
And she comes to a time-based
agreement of licensing,

00:34:22.080 --> 00:34:24.060 align:middle line:84%
where, for this
business specifically,

00:34:24.060 --> 00:34:28.400 align:middle line:84%
there's a significantly
discounted rate for the students

00:34:28.400 --> 00:34:32.480 align:middle line:84%
to manufacture and use the IP
for the first 10, 15 years.

00:34:32.480 --> 00:34:35.159 align:middle line:84%
And then slowly with
time, that changes.

00:34:35.159 --> 00:34:38.719 align:middle line:84%
Also, her position in
the overall company

00:34:38.719 --> 00:34:41.679 align:middle line:84%
might not be as a co-founder,
but more as an advisor.

00:34:41.679 --> 00:34:43.420 align:middle line:84%
She doesn't need to
be in the limelight.

00:34:43.420 --> 00:34:46.320 align:middle line:84%
But at the same time,
she has ownership.

00:34:46.320 --> 00:34:48.260 align:middle line:90%
She has shares.

00:34:48.260 --> 00:34:51.679 align:middle line:84%
She could have the
[INAUDIBLE] come to her,

00:34:51.679 --> 00:34:53.870 align:middle line:84%
because her license
already has money coming in

00:34:53.870 --> 00:34:56.230 align:middle line:84%
for an additional
revenue stream.

00:34:56.230 --> 00:34:58.550 align:middle line:84%
The way I see it
is that students,

00:34:58.550 --> 00:35:01.510 align:middle line:84%
they have the most
incentive to do it.

00:35:01.510 --> 00:35:04.670 align:middle line:84%
But because Sandra has
the IP, the students

00:35:04.670 --> 00:35:07.550 align:middle line:90%
have to take the most risk.

00:35:07.550 --> 00:35:09.530 align:middle line:84%
Sandra is like a queen
bee in this situation.

00:35:09.530 --> 00:35:13.190 align:middle line:84%
She has the main thing that's
doing this whole thing together

00:35:13.190 --> 00:35:14.390 align:middle line:90%
and taking this on.

00:35:14.390 --> 00:35:18.430 align:middle line:84%
And yeah, I think
that's pretty much it.

00:35:18.430 --> 00:35:19.850 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: OK, so good.

00:35:19.850 --> 00:35:22.370 align:middle line:84%
And that's an agreement you
both would agree to and sign.

00:35:22.370 --> 00:35:24.110 align:middle line:90%
Who else had something?

00:35:24.110 --> 00:35:27.830 align:middle line:90%
Who else agreed to something?

00:35:27.830 --> 00:35:29.450 align:middle line:90%
Did you guys have an agreement?

00:35:29.450 --> 00:35:32.870 align:middle line:90%


00:35:32.870 --> 00:35:36.390 align:middle line:84%
STUDENT: So in our
case, she made the point

00:35:36.390 --> 00:35:40.310 align:middle line:84%
that Sandra does
deserve a lot of equity

00:35:40.310 --> 00:35:43.790 align:middle line:90%
because she is in the IP.

00:35:43.790 --> 00:35:46.590 align:middle line:84%
What I mean by that,
other IP, there

00:35:46.590 --> 00:35:49.110 align:middle line:90%
is no business without the IP.

00:35:49.110 --> 00:35:51.690 align:middle line:84%
There is also no business
without marketing.

00:35:51.690 --> 00:35:55.630 align:middle line:84%
But many other functions
are required in the company.

00:35:55.630 --> 00:36:00.270 align:middle line:84%
So we decided to come up
with a number for each

00:36:00.270 --> 00:36:01.210 align:middle line:90%
of these functions.

00:36:01.210 --> 00:36:03.790 align:middle line:84%
So first break it down
into a bunch of functions,

00:36:03.790 --> 00:36:06.430 align:middle line:84%
come up with a number for
each of these functions,

00:36:06.430 --> 00:36:08.790 align:middle line:84%
and have an honest
discussion about who

00:36:08.790 --> 00:36:13.550 align:middle line:84%
would perform which function,
and according to that divide.

00:36:13.550 --> 00:36:15.310 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: OK.

00:36:15.310 --> 00:36:19.470 align:middle line:84%
So base equity on all the
different requirements

00:36:19.470 --> 00:36:22.470 align:middle line:84%
and who's going to do what,
and then talk about that.

00:36:22.470 --> 00:36:26.030 align:middle line:84%
So you did agree to have
a joint venture together?

00:36:26.030 --> 00:36:27.250 align:middle line:90%
OK, who else?

00:36:27.250 --> 00:36:36.050 align:middle line:90%


00:36:36.050 --> 00:36:38.550 align:middle line:84%
STUDENT: So I mean, overall,
we had a lot more disagreements

00:36:38.550 --> 00:36:39.330 align:middle line:90%
than agreements.

00:36:39.330 --> 00:36:42.990 align:middle line:84%
But one thing we did talk
about was maybe using patents

00:36:42.990 --> 00:36:44.470 align:middle line:84%
to protect her IP
for a little bit

00:36:44.470 --> 00:36:46.178 align:middle line:84%
so that she can have
some control over it

00:36:46.178 --> 00:36:49.540 align:middle line:84%
while giving company control
over to someone else.

00:36:49.540 --> 00:36:52.558 align:middle line:84%
MINDY GARBER: So what
were your challenges?

00:36:52.558 --> 00:36:54.100 align:middle line:84%
STUDENT: Yeah, I
mean, the challenges

00:36:54.100 --> 00:36:56.600 align:middle line:84%
is like it sounds kind of like
Sandra wants to have her cake

00:36:56.600 --> 00:36:58.940 align:middle line:84%
and eat it, too, a
little bit, because she

00:36:58.940 --> 00:37:02.005 align:middle line:84%
wants to protect her IP and
have control over it, right?

00:37:02.005 --> 00:37:03.380 align:middle line:84%
But at the same
time, she doesn't

00:37:03.380 --> 00:37:04.780 align:middle line:90%
want to run the business.

00:37:04.780 --> 00:37:07.220 align:middle line:84%
And she wants to stay
out of the limelight.

00:37:07.220 --> 00:37:12.345 align:middle line:84%
And that interferes with
wanting to grow and everything.

00:37:12.345 --> 00:37:14.220 align:middle line:84%
MINDY GARBER: So she's
ambivalent about doing

00:37:14.220 --> 00:37:15.080 align:middle line:90%
this in general?

00:37:15.080 --> 00:37:16.580 align:middle line:84%
STUDENT: That's
what it sounds like.

00:37:16.580 --> 00:37:17.288 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: OK.

00:37:17.288 --> 00:37:23.540 align:middle line:84%
So who else had some challenges
that would like to share?

00:37:23.540 --> 00:37:25.040 align:middle line:90%
OK.

00:37:25.040 --> 00:37:29.040 align:middle line:90%


00:37:29.040 --> 00:37:32.860 align:middle line:84%
STUDENT: It might be different,
but it's just thinking about it.

00:37:32.860 --> 00:37:35.960 align:middle line:84%
Since student cannot
really take that much risk,

00:37:35.960 --> 00:37:39.300 align:middle line:84%
why not use this as
a research project,

00:37:39.300 --> 00:37:43.020 align:middle line:84%
where you can improve on the
product, how to scale it.

00:37:43.020 --> 00:37:47.080 align:middle line:84%
You can get grants to still make
money if you can make money.

00:37:47.080 --> 00:37:49.530 align:middle line:84%
I mean, but both
parties can still

00:37:49.530 --> 00:37:51.710 align:middle line:84%
be protected because,
in the research,

00:37:51.710 --> 00:37:54.054 align:middle line:84%
you don't have to
make any promises.

00:37:54.054 --> 00:37:54.762 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: OK.

00:37:54.762 --> 00:37:56.670 align:middle line:84%
So instead of
starting a company,

00:37:56.670 --> 00:37:59.065 align:middle line:84%
let's research to how
we can scale it up.

00:37:59.065 --> 00:38:00.190 align:middle line:90%
Is that what you're saying?

00:38:00.190 --> 00:38:01.150 align:middle line:90%
So let's put in money.

00:38:01.150 --> 00:38:02.150 align:middle line:90%
We're going to research.

00:38:02.150 --> 00:38:04.950 align:middle line:84%
We're going to get grants
to see if it is scalable.

00:38:04.950 --> 00:38:08.290 align:middle line:84%
And that way, if I'm Sandra,
I feel more comfortable

00:38:08.290 --> 00:38:10.010 align:middle line:84%
and you feel more
comfortable that this

00:38:10.010 --> 00:38:12.550 align:middle line:84%
is going to be a real
product and a viable product.

00:38:12.550 --> 00:38:16.330 align:middle line:90%
OK, that's a really great idea.

00:38:16.330 --> 00:38:18.970 align:middle line:84%
Are there any other
challenges that you

00:38:18.970 --> 00:38:22.670 align:middle line:84%
couldn't come to an agreement
because of challenges?

00:38:22.670 --> 00:38:25.410 align:middle line:90%


00:38:25.410 --> 00:38:25.910 align:middle line:90%
OK.

00:38:25.910 --> 00:38:28.690 align:middle line:90%
So what really happened?

00:38:28.690 --> 00:38:32.210 align:middle line:84%
How many of you think
they had any agreement?

00:38:32.210 --> 00:38:33.970 align:middle line:90%
Raise your hand.

00:38:33.970 --> 00:38:36.330 align:middle line:90%
OK, so they didn't.

00:38:36.330 --> 00:38:40.770 align:middle line:84%
But let me ask you this,
before we go to the answer.

00:38:40.770 --> 00:38:42.290 align:middle line:90%
Is this a one of?

00:38:42.290 --> 00:38:43.390 align:middle line:90%
Does this ever happen?

00:38:43.390 --> 00:38:45.950 align:middle line:84%
Or is this just
like one time at MIT

00:38:45.950 --> 00:38:49.770 align:middle line:84%
this happened and it
doesn't happen ever?

00:38:49.770 --> 00:38:51.230 align:middle line:90%
What are your thoughts?

00:38:51.230 --> 00:38:53.450 align:middle line:90%
Do you think this is--

00:38:53.450 --> 00:38:56.650 align:middle line:84%
do you ever hear of things
like this happening?

00:38:56.650 --> 00:38:58.270 align:middle line:84%
Joe, do you want
to say something?

00:38:58.270 --> 00:39:01.050 align:middle line:90%


00:39:01.050 --> 00:39:06.090 align:middle line:84%
OK, so they didn't
have any agreement.

00:39:06.090 --> 00:39:07.970 align:middle line:84%
And they were never
able to really talk

00:39:07.970 --> 00:39:11.170 align:middle line:84%
about what they wanted and what
they thought Sandra wanted.

00:39:11.170 --> 00:39:15.570 align:middle line:84%
And she took her invention and
started a different company

00:39:15.570 --> 00:39:18.570 align:middle line:84%
with a whole different
set of people.

00:39:18.570 --> 00:39:22.330 align:middle line:84%
So it was a great, excellent
learning experience

00:39:22.330 --> 00:39:24.090 align:middle line:90%
for the students.

00:39:24.090 --> 00:39:25.370 align:middle line:90%
I want to just tell you--

00:39:25.370 --> 00:39:27.090 align:middle line:90%
PS, they all graduated.

00:39:27.090 --> 00:39:30.570 align:middle line:84%
And they all have
lovely careers.

00:39:30.570 --> 00:39:33.830 align:middle line:84%
But they were not able to have
this discussion with them.

00:39:33.830 --> 00:39:35.630 align:middle line:90%
And at the time, I begged them.

00:39:35.630 --> 00:39:37.390 align:middle line:90%
I said, let me help you.

00:39:37.390 --> 00:39:39.430 align:middle line:90%
I'll just be the neutral person.

00:39:39.430 --> 00:39:41.570 align:middle line:84%
I'll help you have a
discussion with her.

00:39:41.570 --> 00:39:43.710 align:middle line:84%
And they're like, no,
no, it'll work out.

00:39:43.710 --> 00:39:44.860 align:middle line:90%
We're working really hard.

00:39:44.860 --> 00:39:45.960 align:middle line:90%
It'll work out.

00:39:45.960 --> 00:39:49.720 align:middle line:90%
So that's what happened.

00:39:49.720 --> 00:39:51.380 align:middle line:90%
And she still has her company.

00:39:51.380 --> 00:39:54.060 align:middle line:84%
And I don't really know
how successful it was.

00:39:54.060 --> 00:39:56.960 align:middle line:84%
But it's still an
ongoing company.

00:39:56.960 --> 00:40:00.200 align:middle line:90%
So that was that.

00:40:00.200 --> 00:40:03.680 align:middle line:84%
Was this useful to go
through this exercise?

00:40:03.680 --> 00:40:07.780 align:middle line:84%
Was this helpful to you to think
about things from both sides?

00:40:07.780 --> 00:40:11.660 align:middle line:84%
OK, because we're going to just
go do a couple more of these.

00:40:11.660 --> 00:40:15.280 align:middle line:90%


00:40:15.280 --> 00:40:17.080 align:middle line:84%
Actually, so this
is your agreement.

00:40:17.080 --> 00:40:20.320 align:middle line:90%
So now, you have a company.

00:40:20.320 --> 00:40:25.540 align:middle line:84%
And you're going to negotiate
within a company, within people.

00:40:25.540 --> 00:40:29.560 align:middle line:84%
And again, there might be
differences in power levels.

00:40:29.560 --> 00:40:31.660 align:middle line:84%
You might have
legal ramifications.

00:40:31.660 --> 00:40:33.800 align:middle line:84%
There may be more
than two parties.

00:40:33.800 --> 00:40:36.840 align:middle line:84%
And it may require another
level of confidentiality.

00:40:36.840 --> 00:40:40.300 align:middle line:84%
But again, even when I'm having
difficulties with someone,

00:40:40.300 --> 00:40:42.310 align:middle line:84%
I always draw my little
circle of interest

00:40:42.310 --> 00:40:44.830 align:middle line:84%
and really try to
understand what

00:40:44.830 --> 00:40:46.990 align:middle line:84%
is it that people
are interested in,

00:40:46.990 --> 00:40:51.270 align:middle line:84%
and can I position my interest
in the terms of other interests.

00:40:51.270 --> 00:40:54.150 align:middle line:90%
So I've given you--

00:40:54.150 --> 00:40:55.870 align:middle line:90%
this is an example.

00:40:55.870 --> 00:41:00.030 align:middle line:84%
And this is based on two
people that I mentored.

00:41:00.030 --> 00:41:05.170 align:middle line:84%
So Judy wants to get a promotion
as a marketing manager.

00:41:05.170 --> 00:41:10.710 align:middle line:84%
By the way, is there a
talent acquisition module?

00:41:10.710 --> 00:41:13.770 align:middle line:84%
Is there a talent acquisition
module in your course?

00:41:13.770 --> 00:41:15.430 align:middle line:90%
No, OK.

00:41:15.430 --> 00:41:17.970 align:middle line:84%
So in the field of
talent acquisition,

00:41:17.970 --> 00:41:21.350 align:middle line:84%
this is thinking about
how people get hired

00:41:21.350 --> 00:41:22.610 align:middle line:90%
and who you hire.

00:41:22.610 --> 00:41:23.590 align:middle line:90%
But this is an example.

00:41:23.590 --> 00:41:26.330 align:middle line:84%
Judy wanted to apply to
be a marketing manager.

00:41:26.330 --> 00:41:30.410 align:middle line:84%
And so I had her go through
each interested party.

00:41:30.410 --> 00:41:32.430 align:middle line:84%
And these are all
the stakeholders.

00:41:32.430 --> 00:41:35.630 align:middle line:84%
What could they possibly be
thinking about/ What would

00:41:35.630 --> 00:41:36.650 align:middle line:90%
interest them?

00:41:36.650 --> 00:41:38.870 align:middle line:84%
So the manager wants
to look like, hey, I'm

00:41:38.870 --> 00:41:39.970 align:middle line:90%
this great manager.

00:41:39.970 --> 00:41:44.110 align:middle line:84%
I'm growing my employees,
so they can take on

00:41:44.110 --> 00:41:47.150 align:middle line:90%
more responsibility.

00:41:47.150 --> 00:41:49.310 align:middle line:84%
Also, but I need to
get all my work done.

00:41:49.310 --> 00:41:51.590 align:middle line:84%
So Judy's interest-- well,
I want to contribute more

00:41:51.590 --> 00:41:52.910 align:middle line:90%
to this company.

00:41:52.910 --> 00:41:55.130 align:middle line:84%
I want to be seen
as very competent.

00:41:55.130 --> 00:41:57.350 align:middle line:84%
I want to start
supervising others.

00:41:57.350 --> 00:42:01.130 align:middle line:84%
I want to be part of a
really high-achieving team.

00:42:01.130 --> 00:42:02.530 align:middle line:90%
I want more challenging work.

00:42:02.530 --> 00:42:05.830 align:middle line:84%
I want to use my
newly gained skills.

00:42:05.830 --> 00:42:07.130 align:middle line:90%
So what does the company want?

00:42:07.130 --> 00:42:10.310 align:middle line:84%
Well, of course, what
company doesn't want revenue?

00:42:10.310 --> 00:42:12.290 align:middle line:84%
But they also want
effective leadership.

00:42:12.290 --> 00:42:14.110 align:middle line:84%
And they want to
grow their employees.

00:42:14.110 --> 00:42:16.330 align:middle line:84%
They want to have
more diversity.

00:42:16.330 --> 00:42:20.430 align:middle line:90%
They want more client projects.

00:42:20.430 --> 00:42:21.610 align:middle line:90%
But then she has teammates.

00:42:21.610 --> 00:42:25.410 align:middle line:84%
They probably want
a promotion, too.

00:42:25.410 --> 00:42:29.030 align:middle line:84%
So thinking about all of
these things, so what it did

00:42:29.030 --> 00:42:31.090 align:middle line:84%
is it actually helped
her go to her manager.

00:42:31.090 --> 00:42:34.470 align:middle line:84%
But before she did that,
I said, OK, well, you

00:42:34.470 --> 00:42:36.310 align:middle line:90%
want to be a marketing manager.

00:42:36.310 --> 00:42:38.720 align:middle line:84%
Here's all the things that a
marketing manager could do.

00:42:38.720 --> 00:42:40.720 align:middle line:90%
This is not the exhaustive list.

00:42:40.720 --> 00:42:41.820 align:middle line:90%
But I'm just saying.

00:42:41.820 --> 00:42:44.788 align:middle line:84%
And you don't have to-- it's
just everything that anyone

00:42:44.788 --> 00:42:46.080 align:middle line:90%
could think about in marketing.

00:42:46.080 --> 00:42:50.340 align:middle line:84%
And actually, the company
that I was a founder of,

00:42:50.340 --> 00:42:53.325 align:middle line:84%
these were all the things that
we had to do for marketing.

00:42:53.325 --> 00:42:54.200 align:middle line:90%
I'm not in marketing.

00:42:54.200 --> 00:42:55.117 align:middle line:90%
I was the engineering.

00:42:55.117 --> 00:42:57.420 align:middle line:90%
But the marketing people did.

00:42:57.420 --> 00:43:00.840 align:middle line:90%
And so I sent her this list.

00:43:00.840 --> 00:43:03.460 align:middle line:90%
And I just didn't do anything.

00:43:03.460 --> 00:43:05.460 align:middle line:84%
I just said, OK, well,
here's some of the things

00:43:05.460 --> 00:43:08.580 align:middle line:84%
that marketing is
responsible for.

00:43:08.580 --> 00:43:12.540 align:middle line:84%
So what she did on her own is
she made an Excel spreadsheet

00:43:12.540 --> 00:43:15.160 align:middle line:84%
and put every one of those
things in the Excel spreadsheet.

00:43:15.160 --> 00:43:18.720 align:middle line:84%
She gave them a value of 1,
2, 3, how important it was.

00:43:18.720 --> 00:43:21.045 align:middle line:84%
And on her own, she
came up with a strategy,

00:43:21.045 --> 00:43:22.420 align:middle line:84%
what she was going
to do, and how

00:43:22.420 --> 00:43:25.880 align:middle line:84%
she was going to go through
all of these things,

00:43:25.880 --> 00:43:28.260 align:middle line:84%
even though this is not
necessarily the be all and end

00:43:28.260 --> 00:43:29.220 align:middle line:90%
all list.

00:43:29.220 --> 00:43:33.480 align:middle line:84%
And so when she went to
talk about her promotion,

00:43:33.480 --> 00:43:34.800 align:middle line:90%
she talked about interests.

00:43:34.800 --> 00:43:37.250 align:middle line:84%
And then she also
presented, well,

00:43:37.250 --> 00:43:39.843 align:middle line:84%
here's what I-- she actually
presented her report.

00:43:39.843 --> 00:43:41.510 align:middle line:84%
And here's all the
things we need to do.

00:43:41.510 --> 00:43:43.310 align:middle line:84%
And here's how I think
we could start them.

00:43:43.310 --> 00:43:46.650 align:middle line:84%
And so she had presented it
like she'd already done the job.

00:43:46.650 --> 00:43:48.770 align:middle line:90%
So she did get the job.

00:43:48.770 --> 00:43:52.210 align:middle line:84%
So anyway, but it all
started with thinking

00:43:52.210 --> 00:43:54.090 align:middle line:84%
about what are other
people's interests,

00:43:54.090 --> 00:43:56.670 align:middle line:84%
and then thinking about how
can you meet those interests.

00:43:56.670 --> 00:43:58.510 align:middle line:84%
How can you prove
that you're competent?

00:43:58.510 --> 00:44:04.090 align:middle line:84%
How can you prove that you
are ready for this new step?

00:44:04.090 --> 00:44:06.170 align:middle line:90%
So that's that one.

00:44:06.170 --> 00:44:09.650 align:middle line:84%
So this is the
last one, is you're

00:44:09.650 --> 00:44:13.130 align:middle line:84%
going to have to negotiate
with other companies.

00:44:13.130 --> 00:44:15.770 align:middle line:90%
And this is a true story.

00:44:15.770 --> 00:44:17.330 align:middle line:90%
So this has happened to me.

00:44:17.330 --> 00:44:22.690 align:middle line:84%
I'm Little Inc. And we had
a contract with Big Inc.

00:44:22.690 --> 00:44:28.170 align:middle line:84%
And it was a fixed cost
contract, meaning they just

00:44:28.170 --> 00:44:30.450 align:middle line:90%
paid us upfront for everything.

00:44:30.450 --> 00:44:34.310 align:middle line:84%
But in the contract, it said,
we can cancel for any time,

00:44:34.310 --> 00:44:35.730 align:middle line:90%
any time that we want.

00:44:35.730 --> 00:44:39.510 align:middle line:84%
And if we do, well, we realize
you may have done some work.

00:44:39.510 --> 00:44:41.370 align:middle line:84%
So we'll pay you for
time and materials

00:44:41.370 --> 00:44:43.630 align:middle line:90%
of what you've already done.

00:44:43.630 --> 00:44:47.370 align:middle line:84%
And literally, the
contract was so vague,

00:44:47.370 --> 00:44:52.010 align:middle line:84%
it said something like, we'll
figure out how much you owe.

00:44:52.010 --> 00:44:54.890 align:middle line:84%
Someone will figure out
somewhere how much you owe.

00:44:54.890 --> 00:44:58.890 align:middle line:84%
And so this is the
thing about contracts.

00:44:58.890 --> 00:45:00.910 align:middle line:84%
You can have a
300-page contract.

00:45:00.910 --> 00:45:03.470 align:middle line:84%
It isn't going to cover
everything you can think of.

00:45:03.470 --> 00:45:04.490 align:middle line:90%
It's not going to.

00:45:04.490 --> 00:45:07.330 align:middle line:90%
So it was very vague.

00:45:07.330 --> 00:45:10.130 align:middle line:84%
And basically, they
didn't cancel the contract

00:45:10.130 --> 00:45:11.870 align:middle line:90%
because of our work.

00:45:11.870 --> 00:45:13.690 align:middle line:84%
The company, Big Inc.,
was actually having

00:45:13.690 --> 00:45:15.250 align:middle line:90%
more financial issues.

00:45:15.250 --> 00:45:18.350 align:middle line:84%
And they canceled all
of their contracts.

00:45:18.350 --> 00:45:22.770 align:middle line:84%
So we were just one of them, but
probably on the smaller side.

00:45:22.770 --> 00:45:26.150 align:middle line:84%
So they said, we're going
to need some money back.

00:45:26.150 --> 00:45:30.650 align:middle line:84%
And we'll tell you what
we're going to do later.

00:45:30.650 --> 00:45:33.880 align:middle line:90%
So I met with the--

00:45:33.880 --> 00:45:37.220 align:middle line:84%
I was as manager--
or not manager,

00:45:37.220 --> 00:45:39.720 align:middle line:84%
but just as
representing service.

00:45:39.720 --> 00:45:43.440 align:middle line:84%
We had a CFO, the chief
financial officer, and the sales

00:45:43.440 --> 00:45:45.360 align:middle line:90%
person, who actually sold it.

00:45:45.360 --> 00:45:47.480 align:middle line:90%
So we went around the room.

00:45:47.480 --> 00:45:50.480 align:middle line:84%
And everybody said-- we said,
I think we should do this.

00:45:50.480 --> 00:45:52.320 align:middle line:90%
I think we should do that.

00:45:52.320 --> 00:45:54.680 align:middle line:90%
And that got us nowhere.

00:45:54.680 --> 00:45:55.860 align:middle line:90%
So I said, how about this?

00:45:55.860 --> 00:45:59.960 align:middle line:84%
Why don't we sit down and think
about all of our interests?

00:45:59.960 --> 00:46:02.720 align:middle line:84%
And we'll think of the
interests of the other company,

00:46:02.720 --> 00:46:05.160 align:middle line:84%
and then see if we can come
up with a solution space that

00:46:05.160 --> 00:46:08.880 align:middle line:84%
would work for us before
we even meet with them.

00:46:08.880 --> 00:46:12.240 align:middle line:90%
So let's see.

00:46:12.240 --> 00:46:17.600 align:middle line:84%
So now, we have Little
Inc. has a sales executive.

00:46:17.600 --> 00:46:20.120 align:middle line:90%
We have the service manager, me.

00:46:20.120 --> 00:46:22.320 align:middle line:90%
And we have the CFO.

00:46:22.320 --> 00:46:28.900 align:middle line:84%
And then we have Big Inc.
So for this contract, well,

00:46:28.900 --> 00:46:30.710 align:middle line:84%
let's start with
the easiest one.

00:46:30.710 --> 00:46:34.990 align:middle line:84%
What might Little Inc.'s
sales executive's concern be?

00:46:34.990 --> 00:46:38.610 align:middle line:84%
Oh my God, the
contract was canceled.

00:46:38.610 --> 00:46:40.310 align:middle line:84%
We're going to have
to give back money.

00:46:40.310 --> 00:46:42.237 align:middle line:90%
What was his concern?

00:46:42.237 --> 00:46:43.070 align:middle line:90%
STUDENT: Commission.

00:46:43.070 --> 00:46:44.195 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: That's right.

00:46:44.195 --> 00:46:46.230 align:middle line:90%
What happens to my commission?

00:46:46.230 --> 00:46:49.830 align:middle line:84%
So that's what he was
mostly worried about.

00:46:49.830 --> 00:46:53.970 align:middle line:84%
And so let's talk about
the service manager.

00:46:53.970 --> 00:46:56.428 align:middle line:90%
Me, what was I concerned about?

00:46:56.428 --> 00:46:57.470 align:middle line:90%
STUDENT: Your reputation.

00:46:57.470 --> 00:47:01.150 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: My reputation.

00:47:01.150 --> 00:47:03.910 align:middle line:90%
What else?

00:47:03.910 --> 00:47:06.390 align:middle line:90%
My job.

00:47:06.390 --> 00:47:07.570 align:middle line:90%
We lost a contract.

00:47:07.570 --> 00:47:08.370 align:middle line:90%
What else?

00:47:08.370 --> 00:47:11.010 align:middle line:90%


00:47:11.010 --> 00:47:13.598 align:middle line:84%
What does customer
support care about?

00:47:13.598 --> 00:47:14.390 align:middle line:90%
STUDENT: Customers.

00:47:14.390 --> 00:47:15.490 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: Customers.

00:47:15.490 --> 00:47:16.690 align:middle line:90%
And what?

00:47:16.690 --> 00:47:18.270 align:middle line:90%
The relationship.

00:47:18.270 --> 00:47:20.950 align:middle line:90%
So what do I care about?

00:47:20.950 --> 00:47:23.340 align:middle line:84%
They had been a customer
for a really long time.

00:47:23.340 --> 00:47:25.090 align:middle line:84%
And we had other stuff
going on with them.

00:47:25.090 --> 00:47:28.950 align:middle line:90%
So this was not a one-time deal.

00:47:28.950 --> 00:47:31.190 align:middle line:84%
We had other
contracts with them.

00:47:31.190 --> 00:47:35.590 align:middle line:90%


00:47:35.590 --> 00:47:38.050 align:middle line:90%
Other interests?

00:47:38.050 --> 00:47:39.550 align:middle line:84%
And let me just
tell you, we came up

00:47:39.550 --> 00:47:43.170 align:middle line:84%
with three pages, three
pages of interests.

00:47:43.170 --> 00:47:46.310 align:middle line:90%
OK, let's talk about our CFO.

00:47:46.310 --> 00:47:49.990 align:middle line:90%
What was her interest?

00:47:49.990 --> 00:47:53.327 align:middle line:84%
What's the problem
with giving money back?

00:47:53.327 --> 00:47:54.410 align:middle line:90%
STUDENT: Well, accounting.

00:47:54.410 --> 00:47:56.510 align:middle line:84%
So they need to have
cash to give it back.

00:47:56.510 --> 00:47:57.590 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: Cash flow.

00:47:57.590 --> 00:48:00.330 align:middle line:84%
They're worried
about the company.

00:48:00.330 --> 00:48:01.710 align:middle line:90%
What else?

00:48:01.710 --> 00:48:03.190 align:middle line:84%
STUDENT: It depends
what happens.

00:48:03.190 --> 00:48:06.982 align:middle line:84%
If it's after the closing of the
books, it's really problematic.

00:48:06.982 --> 00:48:07.690 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: OK.

00:48:07.690 --> 00:48:10.830 align:middle line:84%
So in other words, if we've
already declared the revenue

00:48:10.830 --> 00:48:12.870 align:middle line:90%
because we got the cash--

00:48:12.870 --> 00:48:14.150 align:middle line:90%
did we already declare it all?

00:48:14.150 --> 00:48:17.470 align:middle line:84%
Or do we declare it month
by month or whatever?

00:48:17.470 --> 00:48:18.450 align:middle line:90%
have we declared it?

00:48:18.450 --> 00:48:20.410 align:middle line:84%
And can we go back
and undeclare it?

00:48:20.410 --> 00:48:22.430 align:middle line:90%
So that was that.

00:48:22.430 --> 00:48:25.070 align:middle line:84%
But there were a lot of
personal things, too.

00:48:25.070 --> 00:48:28.180 align:middle line:84%
For example, well,
one of her concerns

00:48:28.180 --> 00:48:32.000 align:middle line:84%
was, I don't want them to
think this is David and Goliath

00:48:32.000 --> 00:48:33.680 align:middle line:84%
and they're just
stomping all over us.

00:48:33.680 --> 00:48:36.460 align:middle line:84%
I want them to feel like
we are a real company.

00:48:36.460 --> 00:48:38.000 align:middle line:90%
We were a 20-person company.

00:48:38.000 --> 00:48:43.180 align:middle line:84%
And they were like
10,000 people.

00:48:43.180 --> 00:48:48.160 align:middle line:84%
But the two of us were
agreed on a couple of things.

00:48:48.160 --> 00:48:52.440 align:middle line:84%
One, we did not want this
to escalate to the CEO,

00:48:52.440 --> 00:48:54.120 align:middle line:84%
even though that was
just one level up.

00:48:54.120 --> 00:48:58.300 align:middle line:84%
In a 20-person company,
there's only one or two levels.

00:48:58.300 --> 00:49:00.540 align:middle line:84%
We did not want it
to go to the CEO.

00:49:00.540 --> 00:49:04.740 align:middle line:84%
We did not want lawyers
involved, because that

00:49:04.740 --> 00:49:06.100 align:middle line:90%
wouldn't have done any good.

00:49:06.100 --> 00:49:08.740 align:middle line:84%
And so we really wanted
to keep it at our level.

00:49:08.740 --> 00:49:12.260 align:middle line:84%
But now, think about our
contact at Big Inc. What

00:49:12.260 --> 00:49:14.040 align:middle line:90%
was Big Inc. worried about?

00:49:14.040 --> 00:49:17.260 align:middle line:90%


00:49:17.260 --> 00:49:18.460 align:middle line:90%
STUDENT: Their reputation.

00:49:18.460 --> 00:49:19.840 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: Their reputation.

00:49:19.840 --> 00:49:23.460 align:middle line:84%
So they were like, oh, we bought
something from Little Inc.

00:49:23.460 --> 00:49:24.610 align:middle line:90%
and we canceled it.

00:49:24.610 --> 00:49:25.630 align:middle line:90%
And who cares?

00:49:25.630 --> 00:49:28.450 align:middle line:84%
We stomp all over
little companies.

00:49:28.450 --> 00:49:30.298 align:middle line:90%
What else?

00:49:30.298 --> 00:49:31.905 align:middle line:90%
STUDENT: Legal?

00:49:31.905 --> 00:49:33.530 align:middle line:84%
MINDY GARBER: Legal,
maybe like they'll

00:49:33.530 --> 00:49:36.450 align:middle line:84%
sue us because we've
already paid them

00:49:36.450 --> 00:49:38.430 align:middle line:84%
and they've done so
much of the work.

00:49:38.430 --> 00:49:42.490 align:middle line:90%


00:49:42.490 --> 00:49:44.690 align:middle line:84%
They don't know
what we're thinking.

00:49:44.690 --> 00:49:47.170 align:middle line:84%
And we didn't know what
they were thinking either.

00:49:47.170 --> 00:49:49.410 align:middle line:90%
So what else?

00:49:49.410 --> 00:49:51.650 align:middle line:84%
STUDENT: Someone messed
up and they would

00:49:51.650 --> 00:49:53.657 align:middle line:90%
want to protect themselves.

00:49:53.657 --> 00:49:54.490 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: Right.

00:49:54.490 --> 00:49:56.690 align:middle line:84%
So how about the
person who bought this

00:49:56.690 --> 00:49:58.090 align:middle line:90%
and signed the contract?

00:49:58.090 --> 00:50:00.370 align:middle line:84%
Oh my God, I signed
the contract.

00:50:00.370 --> 00:50:01.630 align:middle line:90%
And now, they canceled it.

00:50:01.630 --> 00:50:03.750 align:middle line:84%
What's my reputation
going to be like?

00:50:03.750 --> 00:50:09.210 align:middle line:90%


00:50:09.210 --> 00:50:13.070 align:middle line:84%
Here's the interest
that we came up with.

00:50:13.070 --> 00:50:14.990 align:middle line:84%
And again, I said,
we have three pages.

00:50:14.990 --> 00:50:17.530 align:middle line:84%
So from the sales
executive, is this

00:50:17.530 --> 00:50:19.810 align:middle line:84%
going to affect my
follow-on business?

00:50:19.810 --> 00:50:22.470 align:middle line:84%
The original contracts
were fair and reasonable.

00:50:22.470 --> 00:50:27.370 align:middle line:84%
So we felt like his interest was
that we didn't do anything wrong

00:50:27.370 --> 00:50:29.410 align:middle line:90%
and we shouldn't be penalized.

00:50:29.410 --> 00:50:30.810 align:middle line:90%
You have a question?

00:50:30.810 --> 00:50:34.890 align:middle line:84%
STUDENT: Were we assuming
that this was a big sale?

00:50:34.890 --> 00:50:37.910 align:middle line:84%
It was a big company,
but was it a big sale?

00:50:37.910 --> 00:50:41.330 align:middle line:84%
MINDY GARBER: It was a
big sale for Little Inc.,

00:50:41.330 --> 00:50:46.510 align:middle line:84%
not for Big Inc.
And again, for me,

00:50:46.510 --> 00:50:49.150 align:middle line:84%
the relationship with the
customer was very important.

00:50:49.150 --> 00:50:51.490 align:middle line:84%
And I did want to
them to acknowledge

00:50:51.490 --> 00:50:52.470 align:middle line:90%
that we had done work.

00:50:52.470 --> 00:50:55.390 align:middle line:84%
I wanted them to say that
we were a competent company,

00:50:55.390 --> 00:50:58.710 align:middle line:84%
that they didn't cancel because
of anything we did wrong.

00:50:58.710 --> 00:51:01.250 align:middle line:84%
So I was worried
about our reputation.

00:51:01.250 --> 00:51:03.810 align:middle line:84%
Again, I did not want
it to get escalated,

00:51:03.810 --> 00:51:08.350 align:middle line:84%
because I just thought that
would make things more intense.

00:51:08.350 --> 00:51:10.090 align:middle line:90%
Let's put it that way.

00:51:10.090 --> 00:51:12.570 align:middle line:84%
Our CFO was worried
about cash flow.

00:51:12.570 --> 00:51:14.530 align:middle line:84%
She didn't want to
get-- again, lawyers,

00:51:14.530 --> 00:51:16.530 align:middle line:84%
didn't want to look like
she was inexperienced

00:51:16.530 --> 00:51:18.930 align:middle line:84%
and didn't know how
to run a company.

00:51:18.930 --> 00:51:21.200 align:middle line:90%
But she did want it to be fair.

00:51:21.200 --> 00:51:23.840 align:middle line:84%
And she didn't want to
be taken advantage of.

00:51:23.840 --> 00:51:26.520 align:middle line:84%
And she felt we did
do a lot of work.

00:51:26.520 --> 00:51:29.160 align:middle line:84%
And those expenses
should be covered.

00:51:29.160 --> 00:51:32.240 align:middle line:84%
So again, from Big Inc.,
they wanted to look good

00:51:32.240 --> 00:51:34.040 align:middle line:90%
for their stockholders.

00:51:34.040 --> 00:51:36.980 align:middle line:84%
They wanted to continue
the relationship with us.

00:51:36.980 --> 00:51:38.520 align:middle line:90%
We just assumed that.

00:51:38.520 --> 00:51:41.560 align:middle line:84%
We assumed that because we
had other contracts with them.

00:51:41.560 --> 00:51:42.780 align:middle line:90%
Again, we didn't know this.

00:51:42.780 --> 00:51:45.400 align:middle line:84%
But this is what we
thought of in our meeting

00:51:45.400 --> 00:51:47.520 align:middle line:84%
and which I tell
people that they really

00:51:47.520 --> 00:51:51.122 align:middle line:90%
have to think a lot about.

00:51:51.122 --> 00:51:53.080 align:middle line:84%
And they didn't want to
anger upper management.

00:51:53.080 --> 00:51:54.880 align:middle line:90%
And didn't want to escalate it.

00:51:54.880 --> 00:51:57.380 align:middle line:90%
So they had a stable of lawyers.

00:51:57.380 --> 00:51:58.460 align:middle line:90%
We had none, actually.

00:51:58.460 --> 00:52:00.620 align:middle line:90%
We would pay a lawyer piecemeal.

00:52:00.620 --> 00:52:03.240 align:middle line:84%
So it would have been a
lot more expensive for us.

00:52:03.240 --> 00:52:05.400 align:middle line:90%
So what happened?

00:52:05.400 --> 00:52:10.960 align:middle line:84%
So the day before the
meeting, I call my contact.

00:52:10.960 --> 00:52:14.660 align:middle line:84%
And I said, oh, can you
just tell us anything?

00:52:14.660 --> 00:52:16.720 align:middle line:90%
Can you give us a hint?

00:52:16.720 --> 00:52:20.530 align:middle line:84%
And he said, no, but let
me just tell you this,

00:52:20.530 --> 00:52:25.550 align:middle line:84%
please listen to everything they
have to say before you respond.

00:52:25.550 --> 00:52:26.390 align:middle line:90%
So the day comes.

00:52:26.390 --> 00:52:29.110 align:middle line:84%
And the three of us are
crammed into a little office

00:52:29.110 --> 00:52:31.890 align:middle line:84%
with those little speakerphones,
those little triangle things.

00:52:31.890 --> 00:52:32.930 align:middle line:90%
And we call them.

00:52:32.930 --> 00:52:35.050 align:middle line:84%
And you can feel the
tension in the air.

00:52:35.050 --> 00:52:40.510 align:middle line:90%


00:52:40.510 --> 00:52:42.150 align:middle line:90%
We say hello.

00:52:42.150 --> 00:52:44.850 align:middle line:84%
And then they come
up and they say,

00:52:44.850 --> 00:52:47.190 align:middle line:90%
we want this much money back.

00:52:47.190 --> 00:52:48.390 align:middle line:90%
And our CFO looks up.

00:52:48.390 --> 00:52:51.310 align:middle line:90%
And she says, OK.

00:52:51.310 --> 00:52:52.710 align:middle line:90%
And that was it.

00:52:52.710 --> 00:52:54.450 align:middle line:84%
So this is a class
on negotiation.

00:52:54.450 --> 00:52:58.630 align:middle line:84%
What kind of
negotiation was that?

00:52:58.630 --> 00:52:59.850 align:middle line:90%
What are your thoughts?

00:52:59.850 --> 00:53:03.030 align:middle line:84%
We just agreed to the very
first thing they said.

00:53:03.030 --> 00:53:05.190 align:middle line:90%
Why?

00:53:05.190 --> 00:53:05.770 align:middle line:90%
Yes?

00:53:05.770 --> 00:53:08.390 align:middle line:84%
STUDENT: Because it was
better than you had expected.

00:53:08.390 --> 00:53:11.070 align:middle line:84%
MINDY GARBER: So we had thought
in advance what our solution

00:53:11.070 --> 00:53:12.750 align:middle line:90%
space could be.

00:53:12.750 --> 00:53:13.650 align:middle line:90%
We had thought.

00:53:13.650 --> 00:53:16.030 align:middle line:84%
And really, she had
calculated out how much she

00:53:16.030 --> 00:53:19.500 align:middle line:90%
could afford, what would it do.

00:53:19.500 --> 00:53:22.700 align:middle line:84%
And the thing is,
typically when I

00:53:22.700 --> 00:53:25.260 align:middle line:84%
teach this, I get a lot
of pushback saying, hey,

00:53:25.260 --> 00:53:30.060 align:middle line:84%
you should have at least
pushed once because you're not

00:53:30.060 --> 00:53:32.820 align:middle line:84%
doing the fiduciary
responsibility for your company.

00:53:32.820 --> 00:53:34.740 align:middle line:90%
But what were our interests?

00:53:34.740 --> 00:53:36.920 align:middle line:90%
What were our real interests?

00:53:36.920 --> 00:53:38.500 align:middle line:84%
I mean, obviously,
we're interested

00:53:38.500 --> 00:53:41.380 align:middle line:84%
in the financial
safety of the company.

00:53:41.380 --> 00:53:43.940 align:middle line:84%
But we wanted to keep
the relationship.

00:53:43.940 --> 00:53:47.040 align:middle line:84%
And we didn't know,
if we pushed back,

00:53:47.040 --> 00:53:49.020 align:middle line:90%
if everything would fall down.

00:53:49.020 --> 00:53:52.660 align:middle line:84%
So I have another colleague
who tells this exact same story

00:53:52.660 --> 00:53:54.460 align:middle line:90%
with his company.

00:53:54.460 --> 00:53:57.220 align:middle line:84%
And they were
negotiating, negotiating.

00:53:57.220 --> 00:53:57.920 align:middle line:90%
And they did.

00:53:57.920 --> 00:54:00.380 align:middle line:90%
They tried for one more thing.

00:54:00.380 --> 00:54:03.460 align:middle line:84%
And the whole thing
blew up in his face.

00:54:03.460 --> 00:54:06.000 align:middle line:84%
The company took their toys
and went to another vendor.

00:54:06.000 --> 00:54:08.500 align:middle line:84%
And they never worked
together again.

00:54:08.500 --> 00:54:10.920 align:middle line:90%
So you just never know.

00:54:10.920 --> 00:54:12.980 align:middle line:90%
And you don't want to--

00:54:12.980 --> 00:54:15.920 align:middle line:84%
we didn't want to push,
because it worked for us.

00:54:15.920 --> 00:54:17.380 align:middle line:90%
We thought it was fair.

00:54:17.380 --> 00:54:19.360 align:middle line:84%
We could see that,
in their offer,

00:54:19.360 --> 00:54:21.200 align:middle line:90%
they didn't want to stomp on us.

00:54:21.200 --> 00:54:25.380 align:middle line:84%
They weren't trying to be
punitive to us for any reason.

00:54:25.380 --> 00:54:29.100 align:middle line:84%
And what happened was we
continued the relationship

00:54:29.100 --> 00:54:29.780 align:middle line:90%
for many years.

00:54:29.780 --> 00:54:32.380 align:middle line:90%
And they bought more later.

00:54:32.380 --> 00:54:34.840 align:middle line:90%
So thoughts on this?

00:54:34.840 --> 00:54:37.980 align:middle line:90%


00:54:37.980 --> 00:54:41.420 align:middle line:84%
And I have a colleague
who worked at 3M.

00:54:41.420 --> 00:54:42.760 align:middle line:90%
And he said looked at me.

00:54:42.760 --> 00:54:47.900 align:middle line:84%
He said, sometimes the first
offer is the best offer.

00:54:47.900 --> 00:54:50.900 align:middle line:84%
And if it's something
that you can live with,

00:54:50.900 --> 00:54:54.560 align:middle line:84%
and we preserve the
relationship, and after that,

00:54:54.560 --> 00:54:57.740 align:middle line:84%
after the CFO said,
OK, we just started

00:54:57.740 --> 00:54:59.400 align:middle line:90%
talking and chatting away.

00:54:59.400 --> 00:55:03.020 align:middle line:90%
And everything was just fine.

00:55:03.020 --> 00:55:05.480 align:middle line:90%
So any other comments on this?

00:55:05.480 --> 00:55:09.060 align:middle line:90%


00:55:09.060 --> 00:55:10.360 align:middle line:90%
STUDENT: Interesting.

00:55:10.360 --> 00:55:13.066 align:middle line:90%


00:55:13.066 --> 00:55:13.970 align:middle line:90%
STUDENT: Question.

00:55:13.970 --> 00:55:15.370 align:middle line:90%
MINDY GARBER: Yeah?

00:55:15.370 --> 00:55:22.010 align:middle line:90%
STUDENT: [INAUDIBLE]

00:55:22.010 --> 00:55:27.010 align:middle line:84%
STUDENT: It looks like if
you're explicit about what

00:55:27.010 --> 00:55:29.330 align:middle line:84%
you want, and everyone
knows what they want,

00:55:29.330 --> 00:55:33.150 align:middle line:84%
and they talk about it, it's a
lot easier to find an agreement.

00:55:33.150 --> 00:55:40.250 align:middle line:84%
But it often feels that
giving that information

00:55:40.250 --> 00:55:46.490 align:middle line:84%
could make the other part use
it as a weapon against you.

00:55:46.490 --> 00:55:50.830 align:middle line:84%
And I wonder how do you
gauge-- like in this scenario,

00:55:50.830 --> 00:55:53.450 align:middle line:84%
do you think there
would have been

00:55:53.450 --> 00:55:57.410 align:middle line:84%
space to explicitly
say the things that

00:55:57.410 --> 00:55:59.710 align:middle line:90%
are listed here to Big Inc.?

00:55:59.710 --> 00:56:02.850 align:middle line:84%
Or you just have to accept that
you cannot be that open with

00:56:02.850 --> 00:56:05.170 align:middle line:84%
the person you're
negotiating with?

00:56:05.170 --> 00:56:07.170 align:middle line:84%
MINDY GARBER: OK, let me
tell you one more story

00:56:07.170 --> 00:56:08.930 align:middle line:90%
that answers that question.

00:56:08.930 --> 00:56:11.700 align:middle line:84%
So I was advising
another other person.

00:56:11.700 --> 00:56:15.840 align:middle line:84%
So she was a Big Inc. trying to
buy a Little Inc. because Little

00:56:15.840 --> 00:56:19.520 align:middle line:84%
Inc. had some IP that absolutely
everybody in her field

00:56:19.520 --> 00:56:20.720 align:middle line:90%
was after.

00:56:20.720 --> 00:56:25.440 align:middle line:84%
So it took her six months
to get a meeting with him.

00:56:25.440 --> 00:56:27.320 align:middle line:84%
And so I said to
her, why don't you

00:56:27.320 --> 00:56:30.860 align:middle line:84%
plan out everything and think
about what his interests are,

00:56:30.860 --> 00:56:32.160 align:middle line:90%
what your interests are?

00:56:32.160 --> 00:56:34.760 align:middle line:84%
Think about everything
you're going to say.

00:56:34.760 --> 00:56:37.660 align:middle line:84%
And think about everything
he might say because now you

00:56:37.660 --> 00:56:41.120 align:middle line:84%
know everybody is after him,
because he's got something

00:56:41.120 --> 00:56:43.640 align:middle line:90%
that everybody wants.

00:56:43.640 --> 00:56:47.180 align:middle line:84%
So he'd been talking
to other companies.

00:56:47.180 --> 00:56:49.142 align:middle line:84%
And so she calls
me up afterwards.

00:56:49.142 --> 00:56:50.600 align:middle line:84%
She has this meeting
with her team.

00:56:50.600 --> 00:56:52.480 align:middle line:90%
And she goes through this.

00:56:52.480 --> 00:56:56.040 align:middle line:90%
And she walks in the door.

00:56:56.040 --> 00:57:00.760 align:middle line:84%
And the first thing the guy
says to her-- they come in.

00:57:00.760 --> 00:57:04.520 align:middle line:84%
She's waited six months to
have an hour meeting with him.

00:57:04.520 --> 00:57:06.780 align:middle line:84%
And he literally looks at
her, doesn't say hello.

00:57:06.780 --> 00:57:09.000 align:middle line:90%
He goes, what do you want?

00:57:09.000 --> 00:57:10.000 align:middle line:90%
Literally.

00:57:10.000 --> 00:57:13.560 align:middle line:84%
And she starts in by
saying, we thought

00:57:13.560 --> 00:57:15.680 align:middle line:84%
that you might be
interested in having

00:57:15.680 --> 00:57:19.240 align:middle line:84%
your intellectual property
get more disseminated

00:57:19.240 --> 00:57:20.360 align:middle line:90%
through the world.

00:57:20.360 --> 00:57:22.660 align:middle line:84%
We have all these
things going on.

00:57:22.660 --> 00:57:26.920 align:middle line:84%
We would like to help you
get your product out there.

00:57:26.920 --> 00:57:29.360 align:middle line:84%
And so she started
by saying, here's

00:57:29.360 --> 00:57:32.120 align:middle line:84%
what we think your
interests are.

00:57:32.120 --> 00:57:33.480 align:middle line:90%
And then she calls me back.

00:57:33.480 --> 00:57:34.580 align:middle line:90%
And she's really excited.

00:57:34.580 --> 00:57:36.780 align:middle line:84%
And she tells me, she
says, you know what?

00:57:36.780 --> 00:57:38.338 align:middle line:90%
We got them wrong, some of them.

00:57:38.338 --> 00:57:39.380 align:middle line:90%
I said, what do you mean?

00:57:39.380 --> 00:57:41.678 align:middle line:84%
She said, well, some of
the interests we got wrong.

00:57:41.678 --> 00:57:42.720 align:middle line:90%
But then he corrected us.

00:57:42.720 --> 00:57:45.660 align:middle line:84%
And he said, oh no, I'm
not interested in this,

00:57:45.660 --> 00:57:47.440 align:middle line:90%
but I'm interested in that.

00:57:47.440 --> 00:57:51.840 align:middle line:84%
And so basically, she
started out with interests

00:57:51.840 --> 00:57:55.200 align:middle line:90%
and discussing it.

00:57:55.200 --> 00:57:58.320 align:middle line:84%
And when he saw that she was
interested in his interest,

00:57:58.320 --> 00:58:02.563 align:middle line:84%
and helping him, and that it
was a joint problem to solve,

00:58:02.563 --> 00:58:03.480 align:middle line:90%
they got the business.

00:58:03.480 --> 00:58:05.200 align:middle line:90%
And she got a promotion.

00:58:05.200 --> 00:58:07.830 align:middle line:90%
So it depends on how you start.

00:58:07.830 --> 00:58:14.270 align:middle line:84%
And then my 3M buddy, he's had
all these negotiations with IBM.

00:58:14.270 --> 00:58:16.770 align:middle line:84%
And he said, one time
it wasn't going at all.

00:58:16.770 --> 00:58:21.028 align:middle line:84%
And he said, these both
have stables of lawyers.

00:58:21.028 --> 00:58:23.570 align:middle line:84%
And he said, well, let's talk
about what we're interested in.

00:58:23.570 --> 00:58:25.490 align:middle line:84%
No, no, we're just
going to negotiate.

00:58:25.490 --> 00:58:26.850 align:middle line:90%
And things weren't moving.

00:58:26.850 --> 00:58:28.270 align:middle line:90%
Things weren't moving at all.

00:58:28.270 --> 00:58:30.670 align:middle line:84%
And so he finally
just said, well,

00:58:30.670 --> 00:58:33.130 align:middle line:84%
3M is interested in
doing this kind of thing.

00:58:33.130 --> 00:58:35.802 align:middle line:84%
And he just started giving
them their interests.

00:58:35.802 --> 00:58:37.010 align:middle line:90%
And we're interested in this.

00:58:37.010 --> 00:58:38.730 align:middle line:90%
And they changed.

00:58:38.730 --> 00:58:39.230 align:middle line:90%
They turned.

00:58:39.230 --> 00:58:41.330 align:middle line:84%
And they started
sharing their interests.

00:58:41.330 --> 00:58:44.082 align:middle line:90%
So I think you're right.

00:58:44.082 --> 00:58:45.290 align:middle line:90%
You could use it as a weapon.

00:58:45.290 --> 00:58:48.790 align:middle line:84%
But if you're really
trying as a joint problem,

00:58:48.790 --> 00:58:50.650 align:middle line:90%
you can share your interests.

00:58:50.650 --> 00:58:53.570 align:middle line:84%
You don't have to say, I
need this deal with IBM

00:58:53.570 --> 00:58:55.890 align:middle line:84%
because otherwise 3M is
going to go out of business.

00:58:55.890 --> 00:58:58.590 align:middle line:84%
I mean, those things
you don't share.

00:58:58.590 --> 00:59:05.850 align:middle line:84%
But you can share the things
that will help move it forward.

00:59:05.850 --> 00:59:07.620 align:middle line:90%
Does that help?

00:59:07.620 --> 00:59:09.620 align:middle line:90%
OK, go ahead.

00:59:09.620 --> 00:59:11.560 align:middle line:84%
We have two more
minutes, but go ahead.

00:59:11.560 --> 00:59:15.460 align:middle line:90%


00:59:15.460 --> 00:59:17.500 align:middle line:84%
STUDENT: I noticed
that, in this example,

00:59:17.500 --> 00:59:20.120 align:middle line:84%
you had three interests
of individuals,

00:59:20.120 --> 00:59:24.660 align:middle line:84%
and then one big
interest of the company.

00:59:24.660 --> 00:59:28.460 align:middle line:84%
And when it comes to
business negotiations, when

00:59:28.460 --> 00:59:30.780 align:middle line:84%
you get into this
room, I would assume

00:59:30.780 --> 00:59:33.120 align:middle line:84%
that if you know who the
people are going to be there,

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it's kind of a little bit
easier to potentially prepare.

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But if you get into the
room and you have people

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that you did not expect to
see, how do you tackle this,

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meaning that you just don't
know what the interests will be?

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Do you address this from
the business interest

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or still take into
account personal stuff?

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MINDY GARBER: Well,
I guess you can--

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well, first of all,
you're saying--

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because the person
we were talking to

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had different interests
than Big Inc., right?

01:00:03.160 --> 01:00:05.580 align:middle line:84%
I mean, we could have
put the people that

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were going to be in the room.

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But if this had been let's
talk about our interests,

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I would have said,
oh, you're probably

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interested in making sure
that this is working.

01:00:16.880 --> 01:00:19.060 align:middle line:90%
So you can actually ask people.

01:00:19.060 --> 01:00:21.117 align:middle line:84%
And so when I'm
even in a mediation,

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I'll just ask them, well,
what are your interests?

01:00:23.200 --> 01:00:24.780 align:middle line:90%
What is important to you?

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What are you trying
to accomplish?

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What would be helpful to you?

01:00:28.900 --> 01:00:30.720 align:middle line:84%
And if people don't
want to share,

01:00:30.720 --> 01:00:33.380 align:middle line:84%
then you can see which way
the negotiation may not

01:00:33.380 --> 01:00:35.900 align:middle line:84%
go so far because
you don't even know

01:00:35.900 --> 01:00:39.227 align:middle line:84%
what to offer them because
there might be things that--

01:00:39.227 --> 01:00:40.560 align:middle line:90%
I mean, this is the whole point.

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There might be things that
are so valueless to you,

01:00:43.160 --> 01:00:44.720 align:middle line:90%
but they're valuable to them.

01:00:44.720 --> 01:00:47.060 align:middle line:84%
And they say, well, we
want your company to do X.

01:00:47.060 --> 01:00:51.300 align:middle line:84%
And you're like, OK, because
it's not a big deal for you.

01:00:51.300 --> 01:00:53.660 align:middle line:84%
It's how do you get
to those things that

01:00:53.660 --> 01:00:57.080 align:middle line:84%
are low value to one person,
high value to the other,

01:00:57.080 --> 01:01:00.060 align:middle line:84%
or things that you
can talk about.

01:01:00.060 --> 01:01:04.130 align:middle line:90%
So was this helpful?

01:01:04.130 --> 01:01:06.850 align:middle line:90%
OK.

01:01:06.850 --> 01:01:09.730 align:middle line:84%
Summary-- startups,
make sure that you

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understand the interests
of your co-founder.

01:01:12.390 --> 01:01:14.090 align:middle line:90%
That's really important.

01:01:14.090 --> 01:01:17.850 align:middle line:84%
Document your decisions
because someday

01:01:17.850 --> 01:01:20.850 align:middle line:84%
you're going to go,
well, why did we do that?

01:01:20.850 --> 01:01:24.770 align:middle line:84%
So I tell people, write
everything down and revisit it

01:01:24.770 --> 01:01:27.850 align:middle line:84%
periodically because
companies change really fast

01:01:27.850 --> 01:01:29.310 align:middle line:90%
and your ideas change fast.

01:01:29.310 --> 01:01:31.930 align:middle line:90%
And you need to keep going.

01:01:31.930 --> 01:01:36.230 align:middle line:84%
And then for negotiations,
just prepare, prepare, prepare.

01:01:36.230 --> 01:01:38.770 align:middle line:84%
What has been shown is the
more that you think about what

01:01:38.770 --> 01:01:40.870 align:middle line:84%
your interests are, what
their interests are,

01:01:40.870 --> 01:01:44.690 align:middle line:84%
what your zone of
solution could be--

01:01:44.690 --> 01:01:46.690 align:middle line:90%
and listen in the meeting.

01:01:46.690 --> 01:01:47.810 align:middle line:90%
You'll hear new interests.

01:01:47.810 --> 01:01:50.190 align:middle line:84%
And you'll say, oh, you
guys are interested in this.

01:01:50.190 --> 01:01:51.030 align:middle line:90%
I didn't know that.

01:01:51.030 --> 01:01:53.610 align:middle line:84%
Well, we might be interested in
helping you with that aspect,

01:01:53.610 --> 01:01:54.250 align:middle line:90%
too.

01:01:54.250 --> 01:01:59.850 align:middle line:84%
So you're always listening and
thinking about what you can do.

01:01:59.850 --> 01:02:01.080 align:middle line:90%
All right.

01:02:01.080 --> 01:02:02.020 align:middle line:90%
I think that's it.

01:02:02.020 --> 01:02:03.020 align:middle line:90%
So thank you very much.

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I hope this was helpful.

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[APPLAUSE]

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PROFESSOR: Mindy, great.

01:02:06.940 --> 01:02:07.640 align:middle line:90%
Thank you.

01:02:07.640 --> 01:02:10.580 align:middle line:84%
There's so many little
tidbits of knowledge here.

01:02:10.580 --> 01:02:14.080 align:middle line:84%
And it brought back
a memory I had.

01:02:14.080 --> 01:02:16.520 align:middle line:84%
There were three of us
on one side negotiating

01:02:16.520 --> 01:02:20.000 align:middle line:84%
this divestiture of
a whole division.

01:02:20.000 --> 01:02:21.900 align:middle line:90%
And we were the little company.

01:02:21.900 --> 01:02:25.000 align:middle line:84%
It was big, but little compared
to the big company that had

01:02:25.000 --> 01:02:28.080 align:middle line:90%
like 10 people at the table.

01:02:28.080 --> 01:02:29.800 align:middle line:84%
And we did a little
introduction--

01:02:29.800 --> 01:02:31.540 align:middle line:90%
who's who, how are you.

01:02:31.540 --> 01:02:34.240 align:middle line:84%
And it became pretty
clear that these 10 people

01:02:34.240 --> 01:02:38.840 align:middle line:84%
had flown in from all
different parts of the company.

01:02:38.840 --> 01:02:42.560 align:middle line:84%
And they probably hadn't
really talked to each other.

01:02:42.560 --> 01:02:44.840 align:middle line:84%
So after the introductions,
we suggested,

01:02:44.840 --> 01:02:47.533 align:middle line:84%
you guys have just
arrived, maybe you

01:02:47.533 --> 01:02:49.105 align:middle line:90%
want a little time to--

01:02:49.105 --> 01:02:50.480 align:middle line:84%
we're going to
give you some room

01:02:50.480 --> 01:02:52.860 align:middle line:90%
to get organized and everything.

01:02:52.860 --> 01:02:54.862 align:middle line:84%
And we went out
for about an hour.

01:02:54.862 --> 01:02:56.320 align:middle line:84%
And during that
time, they actually

01:02:56.320 --> 01:02:58.560 align:middle line:84%
managed to talk and
get organized enough.

01:02:58.560 --> 01:03:00.740 align:middle line:84%
So we had a really
interesting discussion.

01:03:00.740 --> 01:03:03.715 align:middle line:84%
Otherwise, it was pretty
clear that somebody

01:03:03.715 --> 01:03:04.840 align:middle line:90%
was going to say something.

01:03:04.840 --> 01:03:06.820 align:middle line:84%
And somebody else was going
to say something else.

01:03:06.820 --> 01:03:08.278 align:middle line:84%
And it wasn't going
to go anywhere.

01:03:08.278 --> 01:03:11.660 align:middle line:84%
So you brought back that
memory about interest.

01:03:11.660 --> 01:03:14.240 align:middle line:84%
Make sure the other
side understands

01:03:14.240 --> 01:03:16.320 align:middle line:84%
their internal interests
when you're dealing

01:03:16.320 --> 01:03:17.620 align:middle line:90%
with a big, big company.

01:03:17.620 --> 01:03:19.700 align:middle line:90%
So thank you very much, Mindy.

01:03:19.700 --> 01:03:22.980 align:middle line:84%
And tomorrow, we
have Financing Night.

01:03:22.980 --> 01:03:25.220 align:middle line:84%
We have a Financing
Sources Panel.

01:03:25.220 --> 01:03:28.000 align:middle line:84%
We'll see different
people representing

01:03:28.000 --> 01:03:30.240 align:middle line:90%
different sources of financing.

01:03:30.240 --> 01:03:33.560 align:middle line:84%
And then we'll have a session on
how to do financial projections

01:03:33.560 --> 01:03:34.900 align:middle line:90%
for your new venture.

01:03:34.900 --> 01:03:37.580 align:middle line:90%
So tomorrow, it's all money.

01:03:37.580 --> 01:03:40.060 align:middle line:84%
Tonight, you were rich a
few times, according to Bob.

01:03:40.060 --> 01:03:41.920 align:middle line:84%
Tomorrow, you're
going to see what

01:03:41.920 --> 01:03:44.300 align:middle line:84%
it's like to be on that
side of the equation.

01:03:44.300 --> 01:03:45.680 align:middle line:90%
So we'll see you tomorrow.

01:03:45.680 --> 01:03:47.260 align:middle line:90%
And have a good evening.

01:03:47.260 --> 01:03:48.320 align:middle line:90%
Thank you.

01:03:48.320 --> 01:03:50.370 align:middle line:90%
[APPLAUSE]

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